Kim Skelton, LPCS, LCAS

Kim Skelton, LPCS, LCAS

As a North Carolina Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor (LPCS) and Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist (LCAS), my driving force is helping others create a life worth living. The core values informing my practice are compassion, resilience, mindful presence and authenticity.

My educational background includes earning a Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology (2003) and a Master of Arts degree in Community Counseling (2005) from the University of Alabama in Tuscaloosa, AL, where I grew up. Before moving to Asheville in 2011, I lived in Atlanta where I obtained an additional 180 hours of post-graduate education in addictions. While in Atlanta, I worked in a university setting, community mental health and later school-based mental health. Before building my own practice here in Asheville, I worked in a community health setting providing outpatient mental health and substance dependence therapy for adolescents and adults in the clinic, school-setting and a domestic violence shelter.

Merlin and Simon

Left: Merlin paddling at Lake Fontana and Right: Simon at 10 wks old (Jan 2017)

Personally and professionally, I have a heart for working with trauma, grief and addiction. I am trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and traveled to the University of Washington in Seattle to be trained by the creators of Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention (MBRP). I’ve completed Chinese Stone and Crystal Medicine (Level 3) through Clarity Stone Medicine with local teacher Sarah Thomas, L.Ac. I also have training in expressive arts therapy and regularly facilitate groups.

I am a member of the American Counseling Association and the Association for Creativity in Counseling. I’m actively involved with the NC Chapter of the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, a cause dear to my heart. Otherwise…I love hiking, paddling, gardening, photography, writing… and playing with my furry, four-legged-children, Merlin and Simon. Merlin is terrier mix who is ocularly-challenged (blind) and Simon is a miniature Australian Shepherd.

 

What is your treatment orientation and approach? What will we DO in therapy?

Summer Flowers from the yard First and foremost, modalities are much less important than the therapeutic connection we share. While evidence-based practices are vitally important, healing is an alchemical, heart-centered process that unfolds differently for each person. That said, my treatment orientation is integrative in nature, drawing from a range of theories and practices. My approach is most deeply rooted in existential/humanistic psychotherapy, radical acceptance, DBT (mindful awareness, connection, acceptance, responsibility), EMDR (adaptive resolution of trauma) and ecopsychology (“connection with” vs. “power over”), all aimed at cultivating connection, mindful awareness and compassion. Julia Cameron, author of The Artist’s Way, says that creativity is our true nature. Therefore, expressive arts therapy and the creative process are often woven into therapy for meaningful self-exploration and understanding.

Regarding addictions work, I draw most heavily from Mindfulness Based Relapse PreventionMindful Recovery, Refuge Recovery and Seeking Safety. Addiction groups integrate education, support and experiential activities to facilitate learning and change. All in all, I’m trained in a number of approaches and will work with you to determine which direction we should go.

Areas of special interest include mood and anxiety disorders, trauma and traumatic grief, addictions, gender and orientation concerns and spirituality. If you have lost a loved one to suicide or in a traumatic manner, I would likely be a good match for you.

Is healing possible?
IMG_0361YES! Healing isn’t merely suppressing symptoms, recovering from addiction and trauma or understanding dysfunctional, neurotic patterns. Depth psychologist Bill Plotkin suggests that healing is about becoming fully human – learning to embody our souls in order to become conscious contributors to the unfolding story of the more-than-human world.

“The most effective paths to soul are nature-based. Nature — the outer nature we call ‘the wild’ — has always been the essential element and the primary setting of the journey to soul…The individual soul is the core of our human nature, the reason for which we were born, the essence of our specific life purpose, and ours alone…the gift you carry for others is not an attempt to save the world but to fully belong to it. It’s not possible to save the world by trying to save it. You need to find what is genuinely yours to offer to the world before you can make it a better place. Discovering your unique gift to bring to your community is your greatest opportunity and challenge. The offering of that gift — your true self — is the most you can do to love and serve the world. And it is all the world needs.” – Bill Plotkin in Soulcraft: Crossing into the Mysteries of Nature and Psyche

What helps you see beauty in the world and cope with difficulty? Let’s figure it out together.

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